I had a great time last week talking to John Hall, and Kathy Emmons on WORD FM as a guest for their Seven Deadly Sins Series. Lust - Pastor Jay Slocum from Jonah's Call (LISTEN)
HERE AR THE NOTES FROM THE SHOW
Of course, LUST includes sex, but the biblical view of lust is really far more complex and layered. It ends up making all of us culpable.
Intro: Lust come from the word- Epi-thumia
Epi- Over intense- turbo-charged Desires- Good things that overcome us or obsess us or enthrall us to the point that we cannot live without them. They become our functional Gods.
IDOLS- Inordinate Desires for Objects of Love
1 John 2:16
For all that is in the world, the lust of the flesh, and the lust of the eyes, and the pride of life, is not of the Father, but is of the world. 17And the world passeth away, and the lust thereof: but he that doeth the will of God abideth forever.
I. The Lust of the Flesh
1. Sex and Relationships, 2. Work and Play, 3. Food and Drink
Sex and Relationships
Can't Stop (Thinking About You) Maroon 5
All alone in my room, think of you at a rate that is truly alarming/ I keep looping my memories of you in my head, I pretend that you want me/ And I fall asleep and dream of alternate realities/ And I put myself at ease by pretending that she still loves me/ And I can't stop thinking about you And I can't stop thinking about you/ You never call, what do I do? And I can't stop thinking about your love
“Chastity is the most unpopular of the Christian virtues. There is no getting away from it: the old Christian rule is, "Either marriage, with complete faithfulness to your partner, or else total abstinence. Now this is so difficult and so contrary to our instincts, that obviously either Christianity is wrong or our sexual instinct, as it now is, has gone wrong. One or the other. If a healthy young man indulged his sexual appetite whenever he felt inclined, and if each act produced a baby, then in ten years he might easily populate a small village. This appetite is in ludicrous and preposterous excess of its function. You can get a large audience together for a strip-tease act—that is, to watch a girl undress on the stage. Now suppose you came to a country where you could fill a theatre by simply bringing a covered plate on to the stage and then slowly lifting the cover so as to let every one see, just before the lights went out, that it contained a mutton chop or a bit of bacon, would you not think that in that country something had gone wrong with the appetite for food?” CS Lewis Mere Christianity
Work and Play Mike Reno from Loverboy
Everybody's working for the weekend/
Everybody wants a little romance/
Everybody's goin' off the deep end/
Everybody needs a second chance, oh/
You want a piece of my heart/
You better start from start/
You wanna be in the show/
Come on baby lets go Food and Drink Rehab Amy Winehouse The man said 'why do you think you here' / I said 'I got no idea/ I'm gonna, I'm gonna lose my baby / so I always keep a bottle near'/ He said 'I just think you're depressed, / this me, yeah baby, and the rest'/ They tried to make me go to rehab but I said 'no, no, no'/ Yes I've been black but when I come back you'll know know know/
II. The Lust of the Eyes
Ezekiel 20:24
“Because they had not obeyed my laws but had rejected my decrees and desecrated my Sabbaths, and their eyes lusted after their fathers' idols.”
Beauty and Distraction
"Recently, I was driving through Los Angeles. Suddenly, I had the strange sensation of driving through a huge dictionary. Wherever I looked their were words their were words trying to keep my eyes from the road. They said, "Use me, take me, buy me, drink me, eat me, smell me, touch me, kiss me, sleep with me." Henri Nouwen as quoted in Fit Bodies fat Minds by Os Guiness. P94.
Watching the Gladiators
“As he saw that blood, he drank in savageness at the same time. He did not turn away, but fixed his sight on it, and drank in madness without knowing it. He took delight in that evil struggle, and he became drunk on blood and pleasure. He was no longer the man who entered there, but only one of the crowd that he had joined, and a true comrade of those who brought him there. What more shall I say? He looked, he shouted, he took fire, he bore away with himself a madness that should arouse him to return, not only with those who had drawn him there, but even before them, and dragging along others as well.” (p. 145). Augustine’s Confession
III. Desire What You were Designed For
The Longing For The Father’s Love "Creatures are not born with desires unless satisfaction for those desires exists. A baby feels hunger; well there is such a thing as food. A duckling wants to swim; well there is such a thing as water. Men feel sexual desire; well there is such a thing as sex. If I find in myself a desire which no experience in this world can satisfy, the most probable explanation is that I was made for another world. If none of my earthly pleasures satisfy it, that does not mean that the universe is a fraud. Probably earthly pleasures were never meant to satisfy it, but only to arouse it, to suggest the real thing.” Mere Christianity CS Lewis